情人節不過節單身漢t

Ⅰ 七夕的時候，古代的單身漢們是怎麼過節的

七夕節，一個“迷”之神奇的中國節日，據不大可靠消息，來源於，牛郎與織女的故事，封建社會的牛郎辛勤工作，卻還是受盡壓迫與折磨，天上的織女仙女也不大安分，終於，求得了王母娘娘的許諾，去了人間轉幾圈，看到了苦命，但是依舊積極向上的好兒郎--牛郎，就好像，心裡漏了幾拍，沒錯這就是甜甜的愛情吧。好景不長，王母娘娘還是發現了，牛郎與織女，隔著銀河相望，一年只見一面，每次見面的時候都會痛哭流涕，所以，七夕的時候，下個小雨，也是很正常的事。

古代，不似現代燈紅酒綠，沒有那麼多的“蹦迪”場所，集市，或者郊外，但七夕夜晚，集市，將熱鬧非凡，畢竟，古代的女孩子出趟門不容易，人身限制太多了。

男孩紙，收拾干凈利落，出門“偶遇”漂亮小姐姐啊。

Ⅱ 情人節的來歷(要中英文結合的)

情人節，又叫聖瓦倫丁節或聖華倫泰節（St. Valentine's Day），即每年的2月14日，是西方的傳統節日之一。男女在這一天互送巧克力、賀卡和花，用以表達愛意或友好。

關於情人節的起源，大致有2種不同說法：

說法一：

公元3世紀，羅馬帝國皇帝克勞迪烏斯二世在首都羅馬宣布廢棄所有的婚姻承諾，當時是出於戰爭的考慮，使更多無所牽掛的男人可以走上爭戰的疆場。一名叫瓦侖廷（Sanctus Valentinus）的神父沒有遵照這個旨意而繼續為相愛的年輕人舉行教堂婚禮。事情被告發後，瓦侖廷神父先是被鞭打，然後被石頭擲打，最後在公元270年2月14日這天被送上了絞架被絞死。14世紀以後，人們就開始紀念這個日子。現在，中文譯為「情人節」的這個日子，在西方國家裡就被稱為Valentine's Day，用以紀念那位為情人做主而犧牲的神父。

與此相關的其他傳說，包括這位神父幫助天主教徒從羅馬監獄里逃脫而被處死。

在這個神父在監獄里時，據說他送出了第一個「情人節」祝福。據說他愛上了曾來監獄看望他，獄長失明的女兒亞斯得莉斯，並奇跡地治好了她的眼睛，使之重見光明。在他臨刑前，給女孩一封信，署名「from your Valentine」（這個表達現在還在使用）。盡管這些傳說不真切，但是卻表達了他的富有同情心、英雄氣概、以及最重要的浪漫主義的人格。

說法二：

來源於古羅馬的牧神節（Lupercalia Festival）

這個說法是基督教會慶祝這一天是為了把古羅馬的牧神節（每年的2月15日慶祝，為了保佑人、田、牲畜的生產力）基督教化。在古羅馬，2月春天的開始，被認為是純潔的。按照一定的儀式打掃房屋，然後把鹽水和一種小麥灑遍房間。

牧神節，是為了慶祝羅馬的農神Faunus 和羅馬的奠基人Romulus和Remus。這個節日開始時，Luperci的成員（也就是羅馬祭司的一種）會聚集在一個神聖的山洞裡。這個山洞被認為是還是嬰兒的Romulus和Remus待過的地方。在這個洞里，他們由一頭母狼，lupa，照料。祭司們會犧牲一頭羊，為了生殖；一隻狗，為了純潔。

然後男孩子會把羊的皮撕成小條，蘸上神聖的血後，跑到街上用它輕輕的抽打女人和田裡的莊稼。羅馬的女人不僅不會害怕，反而會樂意被羊皮條接觸，因為據說這樣她們在這一年裡就會生殖力旺盛。後來，根據傳說，這個城市所有的女人會把自己的名字放到一個花瓶里。單身漢們會從裡面選一個。這樣這一年裡，他們就是一對。通常他們會結婚。

教皇在大約公元498年宣布2月14日是情人節。羅馬人的這種婚配方式被基督教徒認為是不合法的。中世紀時，在英國和法國，通常認為2月14日是鳥交配的季節。因此就把此日增加了一個內容，那就是它應該是一個浪漫的日子。最早的情人節禮物是奧爾良的公爵，查理斯在倫敦塔獄中寫給他妻子的詩。因為他在Agincourt戰役中被俘虜了。現在這個寫於1415年的祝福被收藏在倫敦的大英博物館。幾年以後，英皇亨利五世雇John Lydgate寫了一首曲子給Catherine of Valois作為情人節禮物。
Saint Valentine's Day or Valentine's Day is on February 14. It is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other; sending Valentine's cards or candy. It is very common to present flowers on Valentine's Day. The holiday is named after two men, both Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.

The day is most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of "valentines." Modern Valentine symbols include the heart-shaped outline and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten notes have largely given way to mass-proced greeting cards. The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines are sent each year worldwide, making the day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year behind Christmas. The association estimates that women purchase approximately 85 percent of all valentines.[1]

In the United States, the marketing of Valentine's Day has tagged it as a "Hallmark holiday." A recent trend has been to refer to February 14 as Singles Awareness Day.
At least three early Christian Roman martyrs named Valentinus are known (see Saint Valentine for more details). In the two most prominent Valentinus traditions, represented by late fictionalized acta that were both included in Bede, the martyrs were venerated on the same day, February 14, though the years, as they represent two traditions, varied according to the source.[2] An overview of attested traditions relevant to the holiday is presented below, with the legends about Valentine himself discussed in the end.

[edit] February fertility festivals
It has been hypothesised [specify][citation needed] that Graeco-Roman holidays devoted to fertility and love might be related to St Valentine's Day, since there is some correspondence between the time when they were celebrated.

On the ancient Athenian calendar, the period between mid-January and mid-February was the month of Gamelion, dedicated to the sacred marriage of Zeus and Hera.

In Ancient Rome, February 15 was Lupercalia. Plutarch wrote:

Lupercalia, of which many write that it was anciently celebrated by shepherds, and has also some connection with the Arcadian Lycaea. At this time many of the noble youths and of the magistrates run up and down through the city naked, for sport and laughter striking those they meet with shaggy thongs. And many women of rank also purposely get in their way, and like children at school present their hands to be struck, believing that the pregnant will thus be helped in delivery, and the barren to pregnancy.[5]

The word Lupercalia comes from lupus, or wolf, so the holiday may be connected with the legendary wolf that suckled Romulus and Remus. Priests of this cult, luperci would travel to the lupercal, the cave where the she-wolf who reared Romulus and Remus allegedly lived, and sacrifice animals (two goats and a dog). The blood would then be scattered in the streets, to bring fertility and keep the wolves away from the fields. [6] Lupercalia was a festival local to the city of Rome. The more general Festival of Juno Februa, meaning "Juno the purifier "or "the chaste Juno," was celebrated on February 13-14. Pope Gelasius I (492-496) abolished Lupercalia. Some historians [specify][citation needed] argue that Candlemas (then held on February 14, later moved to February 2) was promoted as its replacement, but this feast was already being celebrated in Jerusalem by AD 381. The pope also declared in 496 that the feast of St. Valentine would be on February 14.

[edit] Chaucer's love birds

A portrait of English poet Geoffrey Chaucer by Thomas Hoccleve (1412). The earliest known link between Valentine's Day and romance is found in Chaucer's poetry.The first recorded association of Valentine's Day with romantic love is in Parlement of Foules (1382) by Geoffrey Chaucer:[3]

For this was on seynt Volantynys day
Whan euery bryd comyth there to chese [choose] his make [mate].
This poem was written to honor the first anniversary of the engagement of King Richard II of England to Anne of Bohemia[7]. A treaty providing for a marriage was signed on May 2, 1381.[8] (When they were married eight months later, he was 13 or 14. She was 14.)

On the liturgical calendar, May 2 is the saints' day for Valentine of Genoa. This St. Valentine was an early bishop of Genoa who died around AD 307.[9][10] Readers incorrectly assumed that Chaucer was referring to February 14 as Valentine's Day. However, mid-February is an unlikely time for birds to be mating in England.[4]

Chaucer's Parliament of Foules is generally set in a supposed context of an old tradition, but in fact there was no such tradition before Chaucer. The speculative explanation of sentimental customs, posing as historical fact, had their origins among eighteenth-century antiquaries, notably Alban Butler, the author of Butler's Lives of Saints, and have been perpetuated even by respectable modern scholars. Most notably, "the idea that Valentin'e Day customed perpetuated those of the Roman Lupercalia has been accepted uncritically and repeated, in various forms, up to the present"[5]

[edit] Medieval and modern times

Swedish calendar showing St Valentine's Day, February 14, 1712Using the language of the law courts for the rituals of courtly love, a "High Court of Love" was established in Paris on Valentine's Day in 1400. The court dealt with love contracts, betrayals, and violence against women. Judges were selected by women on the basis of a poetry reading.[11][12]

The earliest surviving valentine is a fifteenth-century rondeau written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his "valentined" wife, which commences.

Je suis desja d'amour tanné
Ma tres doulce Valentinée… (Charles d'Orléans, Rondeau VI, lines 1–2)

At the time, the ke was being held in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt, 1415.[6]

Valentine's Day is mentioned ruefully by Ophelia in Hamlet (1600-01): "Tomorrow is Saint Valentine's Day."

In 1836, relics of St. Valentine of Rome were donated by Pope Gregory XVI to the Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland. In the 1960s, the church was renovated and relics restored to prominence.[13]

In the 1969 revision of the Roman Catholic Calendar of Saints, the feastday of Saint Valentine on 14 February was removed from the General Roman Calendar and relegated to particular (local or even national) calendars for the following reason: "Though the memorial of Saint Valentine is ancient, it is left to particular calendars, since, apart from his name, nothing is known of Saint Valentine except that he was buried on the Via Flaminia on 14 February."[7] The feast day is still celebrated in Balzan and in Malta where relics of the saint are claimed to be found, and also throughout the world by Traditionalist Catholics who follow the older, pre-Vatican II calendar.

Valentine's Day postcard, circa 1910
Tree decorated for Valentine's DayValentine's Day was probably imported into North America in the 19th century by British settlers. In the United States, the first mass-proced valentines of embossed paper lace were proced and sold shortly after 1847 by Esther Howland (1828-1904) of Worcester, Massachusetts. Her father operated a large book and stationery store, and she took her inspiration from an English valentine she had received. Since 2001, the Greeting Card Association has been giving an annual "Esther Howland Award for a Greeting Card Visionary."

In the second half of the twentieth century, the practice of exchanging cards was extended to all manner of gifts in the United States, usually from a man to a woman. Such gifts typically include roses and chocolates. In the 1980s, the diamond instry began to promote Valentine's Day as an occasion for giving jewelry.

The day has come to be associated with a generic platonic greeting of "Happy Valentine's Day."

In some North American elementary schools, students are asked to give a Valentine card or small gift to everyone in the class. The greeting cards of these students often mention what they appreciate about each other.

[edit] The evolving legend
The Early Medieval acta of either Saint Valentine were excerpted by Bede and briefly expounded in Legenda Aurea,[8] According to that version, St Valentine was persecuted as a Christian and interrogated by Roman Emperor Claudius II in person. Claudius was impressed by Valentine and had a discussion with him, attempting to get him to convert to Roman paganism in order to save his life. Valentine refused and tried to convert Claudius to Christianity instead. Because of this, he was executed. Before his execution, he is reported to have performed a miracle by healing the blind daughter of his jailer.

Legenda Aurea still providing no connections whatsoever with sentimental love, appropriate lore has been embroidered in modern times to portray Valentine as a priest who refused an unattested law attributed to Roman Emperor Claudius II, allegedly ordering that young men remain single. The Emperor supposedly did this to grow his army, believing that married men did not make for good soldiers. The priest Valentine, however, secretly performed marriage ceremonies for young men. When Claudius found out about this, he had Valentine arrested and thrown in jail. On the evening before Valentine was to be executed, he wrote the first "valentine" himself, addressed to a young girl variously identified as his beloved,[9] as the jailer's daughter whom he had befriended and healed,[10] or both.[11] It was a note that read "From your Valentine."[9]

In another apparently modern embellishment[citation needed], while Valentine was imprisoned, people would leave him little notes, folded up and hidden in cracks in the rocks around his cell. He would find them and offer prayers for them.

Ⅲ 2.14與3.14情人節有何區別

一個是中國情人節，一個是日本的白色情人節。

情人節，又稱聖瓦倫丁節或聖華倫泰節，日期在每年公歷的2月14日，是西方國家的傳統節日之一，起源於基督教。如今已經成為全世界著名的浪漫節日，但是不同國家的人們表達愛意的方式卻各不相同。

情人節是一個關於愛、浪漫以及花、巧克力、賀卡的節日，男女在這一天互送禮物用以表達愛意或友好。情人節的晚餐約會通常代表了情侶關系的發展關鍵。

情人節現已成為歐美各國青年人喜愛的節日，其他國家也已開始流行。中國將傳統節日七夕節視作情人節。由於能表達共同的人類情懷，各國各地紛紛發掘了自身的「情人節」。據海外網2019年2月14日電，有美媒曝出，日本女性正在抵制本國情人節的一項獨特傳統。

不同時代，過情人節的習俗有所不同。其中從1837-1901年英國維多利亞女王時期的情人節習俗最為獨特：2月14日這一天，一對對情人，將一株生有兩朵含苞待放花蕾的春枝移植在特製的盆內。花名的第一個字母必須與這對情人一姓名的第一個字母吻合。幾天後，如果這春枝上的雙蕾怒放，交相輝映，便預示這對情人白首偕老。

如果雙蕾各分西東，相北吐蕊，這對情、人終將勞燕分飛；如果花開得碩大、燦爛，表示以後子孫滿堂，合家歡樂；倘若一花枯萎凋謝，情人中的一人有早夭之險。在白金漢郡還曾盛行在情人節之夜祈禱的風習：點燃一支蠟燭，插入兩枚細針，從燭底插到燭心，默念自己的愛人的名字，祈禱相愛始終，待蠟燭燃至針尖，據說所愛之人便會及時叩扉而至。

還有個情人節的習俗：在情人節前一周內，連續7夜，將左腳上襪子脫下穿到右腳上，反復祝願：「願我的心愛人兒能進入今宵夢境。」據說，這時月老就會拋下一根吉利的大紅絲線。還有將襪子脫下繞在頸項祈愛的。

單身漢們對「情人節」早晨所遇到的第一個人格外關注，因為如果你未婚而且正在尋覓伴侶，你註定要與2月14日所見到的第一個人結婚，至少這個人會在你的生命里起舉足輕重的作用。如果你不怕羞，你可以一大早給你的意中人打電話，要求搭乘對方的車上班。或者閉門不出，到中午再出去，也是一個不錯的對策。

未婚女子相信如果把鞋擺成T字型放在床下，而且開著窗的話，就一定會夢見自己的心上人或者發現他站在床前。這在農村的成功率更高，因為她的追求者可以從窗口窺見特地擺放的鞋子。

義大利的情侶們相信，在情人節的那一天在朱麗葉愛牆上互相發送表達愛意的小紙條，會得到愛神的青睞和眷顧。

唱情歌是情人們表達愛意的一種形式，有時男性會籍著唱情歌向愛人求婚，尤其在情人節這種有意義的日子更為常見。

Ⅳ 今天情人節，男朋友沒有表示，也不過節，覺得失望和傷心

情人節什麼都不表示，會讓女方覺得自己不夠重要。
可能在男生眼裡，這種節日可有可無，所以也就大意了。
可以在以後的日子裡跟她談談你的想法，相信他會有所改變的。

Ⅳ 情人節怎麼來的,有何典故

情人節又叫聖瓦倫丁節或聖華倫泰節，即每年的2月14日，是西方的傳統節日之一。這是一個關於愛、浪漫以及花、巧克力、賀卡的節日。男女在這一天互送禮物用以表達愛意或友好。現已成為歐美各國青年人喜愛的節日，其他國家也已開始流行。而在中國，傳統節日之一的七夕節也是姑娘們重視的日子，因此而被稱為中國的情人節。由於能表達共同的人類情懷，各國各地紛紛發掘了自身的「情人節」。

傳說一
公元3世紀，羅馬帝國皇帝克勞迪烏斯二世在首都羅馬宣布廢棄所有的 情人節禮物
婚姻承諾，當時是出於戰爭的考慮，使更多無所牽掛的男人可以走上爭戰的疆場。一名叫瓦侖廷（Sanctus Valentinus）的神父沒有遵照這個旨意而繼續為相愛的年輕人舉行教堂婚禮。事情被告發後，瓦侖廷神父先是被鞭打，然後被石頭擲打，最後在公元270年2月14日這天被送上了絞架被絞死。14世紀以後，人們就開始紀念這個日子。現在，中文譯為「情人節[1]」的這個日子，在西方國家裡就被稱為Valentine's Day ，用以紀念那位為情人做主而犧牲的神父。
傳說二
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據說瓦倫丁是最早的基督徒之一，那個時代做一名基督徒意味著危險和死亡。為 情人節禮物
掩護其他殉教者，瓦淪丁被抓住，投入了監牢。在那裡他治癒了典獄長女兒失明的雙眼。當暴君聽到著
一奇跡時，他感到非常害怕，於是將瓦淪丁斬首示眾。據傳說，在行刑的那一天早晨，瓦淪丁給典獄長的女兒寫了一封情意綿綿的告別信，落款是：From your Valentine（寄自你的瓦倫丁）。當天，盲女在他墓前種了一棵開紅花的杏樹，以寄託自己的情思，這一天就是2月14日。自此以後，基督教便把2月14日定為情人節。

情人節圖片(5張)傳說三
在古羅馬時期，2月14日是為表示對約娜的尊敬而設的節日。約娜是羅馬眾神的皇後，羅馬人同時將她尊奉為婦女和婚姻之神。接下來的2月15日則被稱為「盧帕撒拉節」，是用來對約娜治下的其他眾神表示尊敬的節日。
在古羅馬，年輕人和少女的生活是被嚴格分開的。然而，在盧帕撒拉節，小夥子們可以選擇一個自己心愛的姑娘的名字刻在花瓶上。這樣，過節的時候，小夥子就可以與自己選擇的姑娘一起跳舞，慶祝節日。如果被選中的姑娘也對小夥子有意的話，他們便可一直配對，而且最終他們會墜入愛河並一起步入教堂結婚。後人為此而將每年的2月14日定為情人節。 我樂發陽光罐
傳說四
來源於古羅馬的牧神節（Lupercalia Festival）。這個說法是基督教會慶祝這一天是為了把古羅馬的牧神節
情人節浪漫玫瑰圖冊(18張)（每年的2月15日慶祝，為了保佑人、田、牲畜的生產力）基督教化。
在羅馬人崇拜的眾神中，畜牧神盧波庫斯（Lupercus）掌管著對牧羊人和羊群的保護。每年二月中，羅馬人會舉行盛大的典禮來慶祝牧神節。
那時的日歷與現在相比，要稍微晚一些，所以牧神節實際上是對即將來臨的春天的慶祝。也有人說這個節日是慶祝法烏努斯神（Faunus），它類似於古希臘人身羊足，頭上有角的潘神（ Pan ），主管畜牧和農業。
隨著羅馬勢力在歐洲的擴張，牧神節的習俗被帶到了現在的法國和英國等地。人們最樂此不疲的一項節日活動類似於摸彩。年輕女子們的名字被放置於盒子內，然後年輕男子上前抽取。抽中的一對男女成為情人，時間是一年或更長。
基督教的興起使人們紀念眾神的習俗逐漸淡漠。教士們不希望人們放棄節日的歡樂，於是將牧神節（Lupercalia）改成瓦淪丁節（ Valentine's Day），並移至二月十四日。這樣，關於瓦淪丁修士的傳說和古老的節日就被自然地結合在一起。這一節日在中世紀的英國最為流行。未婚男女的名字被抽出後，他們會互相交換禮物，女子在這一年內成為男子的Valentine。 在男子的衣袖上會綉上女子的名字，照顧和保護該女子於是成為該男子的神聖職責。
傳說五
傳說以前在英國，所有雀鳥都會在2月14日日交配求偶，如黑鳥、山鶉等，皆在2月間求偶。所以，人類也認為2月14日是春天萬物初生的佳日，代表著青春生命的開始，也仿效雀鳥於2月14日選伴侶。
編輯本段簡介情人節是個需要謹慎小心的日子——對於單身的人和浪漫的人來說 情人節
更是如此。「情人節」清早一起床你就該從鑰匙孔向外窺探。據傳說記載，如果你所看到的第一個人是在獨行，那麼你當年就會獨身；如果你看到兩個或更多的人同行，那麼你當年肯定會覓得情人；如果你看到一隻公雞和一隻母雞的話，那你就會在「聖誕節」以前結婚。可如今各家的庭院已絕少有公雞母雞出沒，城區空地上也不會有雞的蹤影，所以若能看見一對鴿子或一對麻雀也有同工之妙。
從古羅馬至維多利亞時代，人們用兩株半開的花來預測婚後狀況。未婚男女栽種兩株半開的花，花名的第一個字母要與各自名字的第一個字母相同。如果兩花交相開放，則預示著夫妻終身美滿；如果兩花相背而開，則預示著夫妻將會分道揚鑣；如果鮮花怒放，則表示未來的家庭人丁興旺；若出現一朵花凋謝或死亡的情況，則意味著夫妻中有一方會先於另一方而早逝。
不同時代，過情人節的習俗有所不同。其中從1837-1901年英國維多利亞女王時期的情人節習俗最為獨特：2月14日這一天，一對對情人，將一株生有兩朵含苞待放花蕾的春枝移植在特製的盆內。花名的第一個字母必須與這對情人一姓名的第一個字母吻合。幾天後，如果這春枝上的雙蕾怒放，交相輝映，便預示這對情人白首偕老；如果雙蕾各分西東，相北吐蕊，這對情、人終將勞燕分飛；如果花開得碩大、燦爛，表示以後子孫滿堂，合家歡樂；倘若一花枯萎凋謝，情人中的一人有早夭之險。在白金漢郡還曾盛行在情人節之夜祈禱的風習：點燃一支蠟燭，插入兩枚細針，從燭底插到燭心，默念自己的愛人的名字，祈禱相愛始終，待蠟燭燃至針尖，據說所愛之人便會及時叩扉而至。還有個情人節的習俗：在情人節前一周內，連續7夜，將左腳上襪子脫下穿到右腳上，反復祝願：「願我的心愛人兒能進入今宵夢境。」據說，這時月下老就會拋下一根吉利的大紅絲線。還有將襪子脫下繞在頸項祈愛的。
單身漢們對「情人節」早晨所遇到的第一個人格外關注，因為如果 情人節
你未婚而且正在尋覓伴侶，你註定要與2月14日所見到的第一個人結婚，至少這個人會在你的生命里起舉足輕重的作用。如果你不怕羞，你可以一大早給你的意中人打電話，要求搭乘對方的車上班。或者閉門不出，到中午再出去，也是一個不錯的對策。
未婚女子相信如果把鞋擺成T字型放在床下，而且開著窗的話，就一定會夢見自己的心上人或者發現他站在床前。這在農村的成功率更高，因為她的追求者可以從窗口窺見特地擺放的鞋子。
義大利的情侶們相信，在情人節的那一天在朱麗葉愛牆上互相發送表達愛意的小紙條，會得到愛神的青睞和眷顧。

Ⅵ 情人節怎麼過

和男(女)朋友去逛街,吃飯~

Ⅶ 誰知道從來不過節的人是種什麼心理

從來不主動的人就是一種比較自卑和膽怯的心理。在內心並不是這樣認為的，只不過專由於他屬們的性格原因，他們不會主動去做一件事情。因為在幾十年甚至是一輩子的經歷之中，他們在遇到事情的時候總是這樣做的，自然而然他們也就習慣了這個做法。

假如一時之間讓他們去改正這樣一個不主動的行為，對他們來說也是非常困難的。

(7)情人節不過節單身漢t擴展閱讀：

一個人不自信的表現

1、優柔寡斷!

說話聲音小，不敢說話。平時比較沉默，少和人交往二、不敢正視別人的眼睛，閃閃躲躲，既使於人說話都低著頭。

2、過度在意對方的話!

不夠自信的人，總會過度的關注對方，經常在意對方說過的話，喜歡翻來覆去的揣摩。

3、害怕改變!

缺乏自信還促使人呆在不滿意的處境中。他們可能會因為害怕改變，而繼續保持不適合自己的不良關系或工作。

4、人雲亦雲，沒主見!

聽從別人的話並輕易地改變自己做的決定，這是缺乏自信的人的特徵。他們老是借口是受別人影響才做某事。

Ⅷ 情人從來不送禮物不過節不給錢,怎麼提出分手呢

其實，如果情人節情人從來不送禮物，也不過節也不給錢。那你們之間在一起可能是心靈的位置唄，那你當初跟這個情人在一起。是為了和他的禮物吧。

Ⅸ 今天情人節，男朋友沒有表示，也不過節，覺得失望和傷心

一個人的天空是很美好的,為什麽嚮往有情人?
調整下心態，有情人就有情人節，沒有情人也就順其自然吧～我也不是一樣，有時做人就要瀟灑一點，如果真的覺得有點悶，找幾個單身一族的陪下吧～～

Ⅹ 男友玩游戲冷落我，情人節不過節，說沒錢，怎麼有錢去網吧玩游戲呢

很多事情都需要有個度，如果他玩游戲過度了，讓你很不開心了，那就要說出來，如果他還是沒有想改的想法，那麼說明他對這段感情並不是那麼在乎。